Actually we don't. Because there is no right or wrong decisions. In the same regard, there is no right or wrong feelings, or thoughts, or success, or dreams. See, we all are different. We have our own set of values in life. Your definition of happiness is not the same to mine. You might equate happiness to achievements, and for me it is living in new places as many as I can. But that doesn't mean that one of us is right and the other is wrong.

The wrong thing is, if we try to fit in others' way of life. Worse? If we impose beliefs to other people. Once we let ourselves be conformed with what's "normal", only then we are making the biggest mistake we can ever have. Because no matter how hard you try to be happy, you will never be - because you are listening to other people instead of yourself.

We are different. And that's the best thing!!! Rainbow isn't magical if it is of the same colour. And it isn't gonna be rainbow anyway in the first place, it's either red or blue or yellow. But since it's made of different colours, it is such a beauty no one can fathom.

"Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself." - Coco Chanel

Hey, YOU, listen! I know you are carrying heavy loads right now. So heavy that you begin to ask "WHY?". It's okay. It's okay to ask all the "WHYs" you can think of. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to worry. But don't forget, "IT SHALL PASS". 

The road isn't clear to where you're headed. But, you'll never know until you try. What is life without a little adventure? ;)

Live one day at a time. Everything will turn out just fine. You are not alone.


Xoxo, TNM